Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

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This little girl has lots of questions about her twin brother and many of them I do not know how to answer.

Why don’t I have a brother that I can play with?

Can we go to the flower place (cemetery) to see him?

Why doesn’t he live with us?

Can I die and go to heaven so that I can see Logan?

Does he miss me?

I pray that I find the right words to explain things to her in a way that she can understand.  You can tell, even at 4 1/2, that she misses her twin brother and a big part of her life was taken from her.  And my heart breaks all over again. 

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Jodi! My heart still breaks for you all when I read posts like this. My cousin is in the same situation (lost her baby boy at 24 wks) and has a 10 year old daughter now who has always has lots of questions. I'm sure you are doing fine in the ways you answer them. I think it's ok sometimes to tell our kids that we don't have all the answers. Praying for you still lots