Tuesday, September 14, 2010 - Update

Today, I dropped Olivia off at school, went to Jazzercise, came home, showered and picked her up.  My day was going well until I heard that Olivia shed many tears today.  I don’t really know what that means. . .did she cry the entire time?  How many is “many?”  That really breaks my heart and makes this whole school thing harder.  She was so excited to go this morning too. . .

Autumn has decided that Tobey is okay and there is no more hissing in this house.  It only took 3 days. . .that wasn’t so bad.  I even caught them walking by each other and they rubbed heads.  Awwww.   They don’t yet love each other, but I feel comfortable leaving them unsupervised.  I worry, however, because Tobey demands attention from everyone he sees and that makes Autumn kinda shy away.  I still want to make sure she gets her fair share of attention.  Oh me and my cats. . . .kinda nice that there are no concussions or emergencies  to talk about this week. 

Monday, September 13, 2010 - Update

I think Tobey is actually a 3 year old trapped in a kitty’s body. . .he likes all the things Olivia likes. . .even playing trains!

Things have been a bit better between Autumn and Tobey today.  They can actually be in the same room together without Autumn hissing at him.  So, that’s a start.

Olivia goes back to preschool tomorrow.  Last Tuesday, they didn’t have school due to inservice, so she hasn’t been since that first day.  Hopefully, we’ll have another successful day.  Wish us luck!

Sunday, September 12, 2010 - Update

Tobey and Olivia

These two are inseparable!  Tobey wants to be wherever she is and the unpredictability of a three year old doesn’t phase him in the least.  He’s definitely the social kitty.  Autumn doesn’t like Tobey any better today than she did yesterday, but has yet to cause him any harm.  We cleaned up the old guinea pig room (unfinished room in the basement) and that is where we keep Tobey at night and when we aren’t home.  He has food, water, litter box, cat trees, blankets, etc.  He doesn’t like it one bit, but I’m not comfortable leaving them together unsupervised.    Some day (when Autumn gives the green light) I’m sure they’ll both be sleeping on my pillow! :)

Thanks to everyone who has reassured me that Autumn is acting completely normal and that it will just take a little bit of time.  I have yet to hear of a cat who was introduced to a new kitten and didn’t act this way. 

Sunday, September 12, 2010 - Update

 

Autumn isn’t taking her eyes off Tobey!

Why do I do things that cause myself more stress?  I don’t understand that about myself.  I hate drama.  I don’t know what I expected. . .Autumn to welcome Tobey into our home with open arms paws?  I am completely stressed over making Autumn feel secure and Tobey feel welcomed and making sure they don’t kill each other in the process.  I hate seeing this side to Autumn because I’ve always considered her the gentlest and sweetest of kitties.  She hissed at me for the first time ever after smelling Tobey on my shirt. 

Anyway, so other than kitty drama. . .things are going well.   I was never totally convinced that Olivia suffered a concussion because she just didn’t fall that far and it was onto grass.  I was convinced that she had a horrible bout of the flu and the timing was really bad.  However, no one else has caught this so called flu, so I’m realizing it probably was a mild concussion and that terrifies me. . .that something so seemingly minor can cause that!!  So, you thought I was overprotective before?  Watch out!  :)  Thanks again for all of your prayers this week.  I was a wreck!!

I’d better get back to bed.  I just had to share some thoughts before I could get back to sleep. 

Introducing. . .

our new kitten:

He is a 4 month old male orange tabby (I’m a sucker for tabby cats.)  Sweet as can be. . .although Autumn doesn’t think so.  I didn’t know Autumn could hiss or make many of the noises she has made since we brought him home.  It doesn’t help that the new kitten has a very nonchalant, “make myself at home” attitude.  I’ve never seen this side of Autumn, but I know she’s just exerting her dominance and making sure he knows who’s boss.  So, we’re watching them very closely and the new kitten will probably spend the night in the laundry room.  By the way. . .I think we are going to call him Tobey. . .we kinda fell in love with that name and he looks like a Tobey.  Autumn is 100% MY cat and I think this one is going to be Olivia’s cat.  He follows Olivia all around the house. . .it’s really cute.  Two sweet kitties with entirely different personalities.  Autumn is really shy around people she doesn’t know and I don’t think Tobey has met someone that isn’t his best friend. ..well, except for Autumn.  Autumn will be sure to get lots of extra cuddles tonight so that she knows she’s still my main kitty! 

Dentist Appointment

Today, Olivia had her first dentist appointment.  I was tempted to reschedule it, but since we already had to reschedule once, I didn’t want to do it again.  We went to Dr. Crystal Walker, a pediatric dentist, and it went awesome!!  I highly recommend it. . .especially for kids who have a tougher time with things like this.  They make it as comfortable as possible for kids.  Olivia got to lay down and watch Dora on a television attached to the ceiling.  They didn’t brush her teeth this time because Olivia was a little unsure about it and they didn’t want to push it.  But, she let them examine her teeth and put a fluoride treatment on them.  They sang the ABC song while they were doing it and Olivia sang along with them. . .her mouth open and all.  If only her eye doctor would take some tips from her dentist office, Olivia might be a bit more comfortable.  Olivia just needs a bit more TLC everywhere she goes.  They thought her teeth looked awesome (although she is still missing her top two molars.) I’ve always thought Olivia has beautiful teeth.  The only problem is that they  like to see spaces between baby teeth so that the permanent teeth will have room when they come in.   So, Olivia might have crowding issues in the future.  But, all is good for right now and she is a member of the no sugar bug club.   Way to go, Olivia!

Before/After

So, Wednesday (the awful day) I got braces.  They are a lot more of a hassle than I remember them being. . .brushing my teeth after everything I eat.  I know I’m doing this for the end result, but man. . . .I’m having self-esteem issues.  It doesn’t help that my face has started breaking out thus causing me to relive the worst parts of my teenage years.   Braces were a lot “cuter” when I was 15.  So, I’ll try to grin and bear the next 2 years, I guess.  My goal is to smile prettier, be healthier and be the fittest I’ve ever been by 35.  Guess I’d better get started on the last two. 

 

BEFORE

 

AFTER

Another Update

Yes, this is update #247 for the past two days.  :)  Everything is back to  normal in our household.  Even Autumn is back to her new favorite napping spot. . .Olivia’s baby doll crib.  I’m convinced she thinks it was made just for her.  She fits in it perfectly after all.  I could tell Autumn was a bit concerned about Olivia yesterday and she went in to check on Olivia with us throughout the night.  How did I get so lucky?  The perfect husband, the perfect daughter and the perfect kitty?  I am blessed and grateful that yesterday is behind us. 

 

Doing Good

Shelley and Izzy surprised us with some Dora cupcakes!  Other than a runny nose (that she’s had for a week) Olivia is doing great.  I touched base with her doctor and he said that he doesn’t need to see her since she seems to be doing so well.  Thank goodness because I didn’t want to get out and have to go anywhere today.  We are taking it very easy and hopefully we’ll get an afternoon nap. 

Kitten Update

Found out that the little kitten we were going to take died yesterday.  I think he was just too little to be without a mother.  I guess it just wasn’t meant to be.   Yesterday was one rotten day as I also got braces yesterday.  We may keep our eyes and hearts open for another kitty companion, but we’re in no rush.  By the way, we had chosen Tobey for his name.  :)

Olivia Update

After waking her up every 2 hours, she decided to get up around 5:30 am.  She is acting completely normal this morning and we are currently playing trains.  She wanted chocolate milk and is talking non-stop (even about how she went to the hospital and threw up in the little bucket.)  Praise God.  Hopefully, everything stays normal and uneventful around here.  Thanks for all of the prayers. 

Olivia

Just wanted to update all of you.  Olivia fell off of a slide today.  She seemed okay afterwards, but about an hour later she got really sleepy.  When she started vomiting, we took her immediately to the ER.  They did a CT scan which showed no skull fracture or brain bleed.  It looked fine.  We left a few hours later and the discharge papers stated that Olivia has a cerebral concussion.  She is still not doing all that well. . .sleeping on and off and still vomiting.  Lots of prayers please.  Thanks

Update 10 pm -

Olivia has been asleep since about 7 pm.  We have to wake her every 2 hours to check on her.  We woke her up around 9 pm and she said her name was Olivia and instantly recognized her favorite companion, Gogum.  So, that is a good sign.    She is acting, however,  like she’s really sick with the flu, which I’m learning is common with concussions.  Please please pray that she starts acting like herself by tomorrow.  I foresee a Dora marathon all day tomorrow!   Thank you all for praying for Olivia.  I worry so much about her anyway. . .to throw something like this in the mix. . .I’m a wreck. 

Just Pics

Olivia is still not feeling 100%. That doesn’t stop her from being cute, though.  We probably should have rested a bit more over the weekend because we have a full week ahead of us.  Hopefully, she’ll be fully recovered soon!

More Cole/Tobey Pictures

We’re having technical difficulties with the poll, so just leave your name suggestions/choices in the comments section.  Isn’t he cute?  I’m torn between the two names.  It’s okay, we have a few weeks to decide.  I’m really praying about this decision.  If you remember, I prayed about whether to invite Autumn into our home.  The next day, I got an email from Bath and Body Works and the subject line read:  Perfect Autumn, Perfect for Everyone.  We’ve had Autumn almost a year and every part of that has been  true.  She is PERFECT!  She has even turned my husband into a “cat person.”  I don’t think I’m lucky enough to get another email from Bath and Body Works or another cat that’s perfect, but. . . .

Birthday Party and a Big Surprise!

Today, we celebrated my nephew Aidan’s birthday with a Pokemon party.

 

 

She was so excited to be drinking Pepsi. 

And. . .we also wanted to introduce you to the soon-to-be newest member of our family:

Ryan’s aunt works at a vet’s office and a litter of kittens were brought in.  There were six kittens and this little guy is the only survivor.  We had been thinking for awhile about getting another cat for Autumn as she might like the companionship.  This little guy’s eyes just opened and he is still being bottle fed and requiring around the clock care.  Ryan’s aunt is coming back into town at the end of the month and he will most likely come live with us then.  We haven’t decided upon a name and thought you could help us decide. 

Our choices are:

Cole (or Coal, Kohl, Koal)

October and we’d call him Tobey.  We thought this name went well with Autumn.  He would be October Cole because Autumn is Autumn Grace. 

Be sure to vote in the poll!!!  Do you have another name suggestion?  Leave it in the comments.

We are all excited about our new addition!  Yes, even Ryan. :)   Autumn has been such an amazing cat. . .this little guy has a lot to live up to.  Hopefully, the two of them will become best friends. 

I wonder if he’ll like to sleep in the hamper like Autumn does.

Friday, September 3, 2010 - Update

Olivia missed out on the dentist today (and on preschool pictures.)  She was up sick all night long. . .runny nose, congestion, temperature, etc.  I don’t know if it was from her flu vaccine or not. . .kind of coincidental timing.  Poor thing is pretty miserable.  We did get her dentist appointment rescheduled for next Friday.  We hope you all have a great Labor Day weekend!

Happy 5th Birthday, Aidan!

 

My incredibly adorable and witty nephew is turning 5 tomorrow!  We hope you have a GREAT birthday!   

3 Year Checkup

Olivia had her 3 year checkup today.  She cried the entire time.  By now I’ve realized that anytime Olivia goes to a doctor’s office or anything resembling a doctor’s office. . .she’s going to cry.  She is fine in waiting rooms, but the second they call us back she starts crying.  Boy, does it take a lot out of me (and her too, I’m sure.) Tomorrow, we have her first dentist appointment.  I finally got her into a highly recommended pediatric dentist in town.  They had not been accepting any new patients and told me to call back the first of September.  So, I called today and was thrilled to be able to get Olivia in.  They could see her tomorrow or in December. . .so, I chose tomorrow.  Lucky Olivia. . .back to back visits to doctor and dentist. . .being 3 years old is tough.  : ) Please please pray that she does okay at the dentist.  I just want at least one place that can be positive for Olivia.  I try so hard to make everything a positive experience for Olivia and almost every time I fail miserably.  She is just so apprehensive about anyone messing with her in any way.  After a rough day. . .Olivia was thrilled to watch her new Dora movies that Aunt Kimmy got her.  She LOVED them!

Anyway, despite my best efforts of putting her in jeans to “bulk” her up. . .her weight is still < 1%  She is still pretty tall considering her weight.  But, the doctor isn’t concerned about her weight gain because she is staying on her own curve, so I’m not going to be concerned anymore.  (Easier said than done, I suppose.)  She definitely has come a long way from 1 lb 1.5 oz and 11.5 inches long.  Here are her 3 year stats:

24 lbs 6 oz        < 1%

34.8 inches         7.3%

Head 47 cm        15%

The Story Of Us

I meant to post this for our anniversary back in June, but I didn’t quite get it done in time.  This time of year is rough on us, so it’s fitting to post it now too.  After everything we’ve had to go through. . .love remains.  Thank you, Ryan, for loving me through it all. 

First Day Of School

Well, I dropped her off at school.  She woke up very excited about going to school.  When we got there, it was a bit chaotic and her normal teacher wasn’t there and they had a sub.  The only person that she knew was the speech teacher from her testing.  I could tell she started feeling a bit uneasy.  Then, she started crying and when I told her bye-bye, she really started crying.  The speech teacher invited her to sit down and play Candyland and she seemed okay with that.  That is when I snuck out the back door. . .I just feel awful for leaving her. . .she seemed so young compared to the other kids who carried their own backpacks in and knew where to sit, etc.  I worry about her and wonder what she is doing right now.  This will be a long three hours!

**It seems that she had a great first day of school.  When I ask her about her day, the only thing I get from her is that she ate pudding.  So, it must have been good pudding. :)  I went a little early to pick her up and her class was out playing  on the playground.  So, I parked and secretly watched Olivia play for awhile.  She was having a blast and it did my heart good.  Since we’ve been home, all of her cars have driven to school and all of her stuffed animals have gone to school.  So, I can only imagine that she had a good time.  Whew. . .what a relief.